These days it is not uncommon to settle in and find new horror stories of girls beating other girls, children shooting children in school and the list continues. Unfortunately , violence is almost a daily part of our society , television to war protests intimidation of school grounds , parents should be very aware of how aggressive behavior begins and how to prevent becoming a problem .
From about 18 months , children can begin to show signs of aggression . Early intervention is essential to prevent children who have violent tendencies get out of control . More importantly, all children should be taught from an early age that violence is not a solution , but a problem that will only create more problems . I often hear parents ask the following question:
How can we prevent these acts of aggression occurs and what can we do to protect our children from being beaten, intimidated , threatened or worse by other children ?
A . Be a good role model for your child by learning to control your own anger or aggressive tendencies . Do not hesitate to contact if you have problems with anger management . Activities like spanking, yelling and threatening children can lead to schoolyard bullies , fights and even more violent and dangerous activities.
Disciplining children does not have to involve aggressive techniques , which can give children the message that this type of behavior is acceptable , " if mom does, I can do it." Explore positive discipline techniques and give children at least 30 minutes of direct , one to one positive attention every day.
2 . Teach your children at an age early the golden rule : Treat others as you want them to treat you. Look for opportunities to teach your children how to make good choices with others. If you see your child is so cruel about him on how he or she would feel to be treated this way. Teach your child how to talk about emotions will allow your child to express him or appropriately.
3 . Pay special attention to the friends your child chooses . Is the friend to treat your child with respect and kindness ? Otherwise , talk to your child how this friend makes her feel and if there are other children who could make him feel better. Parents should make an effort to know who their child is friends with and guide to be friends with people who bring positive experiences of the relationship.
4 . Explain to the children that physical or verbal aggression are not acceptable under any circumstances. When an adult sees a child with aggressive behavior , the child should not be scolded, but removed from the situation. Then the child should be asked about what happened and what could have been done differently to prevent aggressive feelings first. This will give you the tools to prevent child abuse in the future.
5 . Give children an outlet for their energy at an early age . Children have a lot of physical energy and if they do not have a productive way to release this energy, they may find themselves in difficulty.
Activities such as sports , martial arts, music, art and dance are all wonderful ways to let children get physically healthy way. Children should participate in any of these activities at least once a day or whenever tensions arise . Have positives for energy can help children feel successful , productive and proud among many other benefits.
These 5 tips can be applied to children , young and old , preteens , teens and even adults. By starting early , parents can encourage their children to communicate and behave appropriately, the introduction to children's success . Parents who want their children to be happy to do their best to show their children that happy people and behave like . Conversely , parents should discuss misconduct not in a threatening manner , but as an opportunity to discuss choices.
Most parents can teach children to use their words and body in a positive way , the more likely that children will not engage in aggressive or dangerous behaviors later in life.
On another note , children who exhibit aggressive behavior during their teens are usually starved for positive attention from their parents. It is never too late to give your child support and love , especially if they are in trouble. If parents can begin at an early age to interact with children on a regular basis and be involved in all aspects of the lives of their children, then guns, girl fights on the internet and other acts of violence can be reduced and parents support will increase. Who will you choose?
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